Abstinence-only programmes don't work because they provide no safety net for those young people who do have a sexual relationship - and research shows that many do
These programs are a farce. They leave our children unprepared for the sexual realities they have to face . The conservative forces of ignorance in this country have been massively successful in withholding health care and education from poor men, women, and children worldwide.
It's time for age-appropriate, life-long, ed. Kinder gardeners need to know that they're the boss of their own bodies, nobody should touch them the wrong way, they need to be protected from predators. Women need to understand menopause, and men need to understand good prostate health. Everything in between! From five to a hundred and five, information is the best defense against disease and unwanted pregnancy.
Have you seen the list of fly by night abstinence only crack houses that have come into being with this crap?
I tell you - if I hear of them coming into my neighborhood schools I will ensure that they are run out of town on a rail.
I guess the more you know the harder it is to dominate you, which is the real intent of Conservatism anyway.
I believe I have shared this on this blog before BUT if you have not seen The Education of Shelby Knox......PLEASE view it and share it w/ others. It was a documentary on the PBS show P.O.V. and has been used in special film presentations by Planned Parenthood groups. It is great!
This discussion is the proper province of the family. I was taught to respect my body, and not to engage in that sort of promiscuous behavior by my family. And I did not. It has made my relationship with my with that much more rewarding.
I also have objections to teaching this in school. For religious reasons, I do not want to have my kids being taught that things my faith condemns are perfectly okay, and are in fact encouraged. I will teach them myself, just as my family taught me. How, by providing a strong family environment that is both nurturing and shows them how to be proper adults.
I know that many parents are don't that anymore, but they should. I firmly believe we need to support education, but I also think parents need to take responsibility for their children's education too. Some things are best handed down by the family. If the parents won't take responsibility for themselves, then why should the children?
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We live in a sex-saturated society, the topic is hard to avoid from an early age. We also live in a congested society, and children are observant. Sex eduation is completely necessary, and it should be accurate and appropriate to the age level, like every other topic, which means professional educators should handle it.
I also understood that parents could often opt out for their children from portions to which they may have an objection.
I suppose I just have a very hard time understanding how anyone could not love their children so much that they'd want to be involved.
I had students who didn't understand the rudiments of the menstrual cycle let alone how pregnancy occured. How are these kids to understand pregnancy prevention? Plus I had kids who had been sexually molested before they ever entered high school...the psychological impact by something that traumatic can change someone forever.The result is often promiscuity.
You cannot judge what one child needs by what your family provided you. I taught in an affluent suburban school. Imagine the needs of kids who live in urban envirnonments.
Research shows the best approach is comprehensive family life and like another post indicated parents can "opt students out" if they feel as you do.
A good teacher can be fond of the children under their care, and can be vital in leading them rightly. But they cannot be a parent.
This is why, despite my support for public schools in so many other ways, I am not particularly pleased with sex-ed courses.
But as you say, there are far too many parents who are not worthy of that title. I wish I knew how to solve that problem, but I would say such people need to feel a higher social cost for their negligence.