My Wish

By: Fluvanna Democrat
Published On: 12/31/2006 12:25:16 PM

I just finished watching Meet the Press and RussertGÇÖs last question for the panel was: What is your wish for the New Year?  It made me stop and think. IGÇÖve been so mad about the world around me, that I seldom think about what would really make it better.

I donGÇÖt often post on blogs.  Usually I read the posts of others and on occasion IGÇÖll respond with a comment.  IGÇÖve composed diaries before, but never posted because IGÇÖm somewhat intimidated by the quality of the posts by the GÇ£regularsGÇ¥.
Without ever having seen your faces (with the exception of WaldoGÇöI work in Charlottesville), I feel I know you all.  There is a remarkable amount of talent, passion and camaraderie evident here on this site and other blogsGǪboth on the right, the left and between the two.  Never was it as obvious to me as during the past week or so with all this nonsense over Waldo and his aggregator.  The cream certainly rose to the top during that conversation.

It warmed my heart to witness people of opposing viewpoints stand up for one another simply because it was the right thing to do.  This brings me to my wishes for the New Year:

I wish for a year in which we could come together as a state/nation and thoughtfully discuss the issues dividing us.  I wish for these conversations to be civil.  I wish people would listenGǪreally listenGǪ to the opposing viewpoints and acknowledge that fundamentally we all really want the same things.

I wish the hateful rhetoric just for the sake of pissing off others would disappear from the dialog.  I wish people would concede that name calling and insults accomplish nothing.

I wish also the GÇ£youGÇÖre either with us or against usGÇ¥ attitude would bite the dust. I wish people of opposing viewpoints would come together on issues on which they do agree and not be called traitors and exiled for being true to their beliefs.

I wish political campaigns could be about issues.

I wish we could take the money out of politics so young idealistic people without vast resources could stand a chance of being elected to public office.

It may seem odd I didnGÇÖt wish for a resolution in Iraq that would bring our troops home with honor or an end to poverty or immigration reform or a balanced budgetGǪGǪyou get the picture.  In my heart I believe the only way the ills of our time will be resolved is for all of us to genuinely work together to find solutions.  We need to put our respective ideologies on the shelf and craft solutions for the greater good. No egos allowed.

IGÇÖm probably old enough to be the mother of most of you.  My generation (youGÇÖll notice I didnGÇÖt say Democrat/Republican, Conservative/Liberal) has done one heck of a job of making a mess of the world and dividing us as a nation, and I pledge to do whatever I can to make amends.  But ultimately, the solutions will rest on your young shoulders.  And IGÇÖm confident, based on getting to know you all this past year, youGÇÖre up to the task.  I have faith the majority of you have the best of intentions and the brains to put those intentions to good work.

Thanks for letting me sit in.  NowGÇöHappy New Year and get to work 


Comments



Great diary! (Ingrid - 12/31/2006 1:34:54 PM)
Very thoughtful diary.  Thank you!


You go Girl! (Silver Fox - 12/31/2006 1:52:11 PM)
As one who is probably of the same generation as you, I echo your words with heartfelt thanks for expressing my feelings so eloquently.  You go Girl!


Great Wishes (mosquitopest - 12/31/2006 2:18:35 PM)
I'm wishing much of the same....plus a withcrawal from Iraq asap...and fixin' up New Orleans....and the list goes on.

Happy New Year to you....Buzz..



wife and I were in your neck of woods yesterday (teacherken - 12/31/2006 2:25:04 PM)
having a belated celebration of our 21st wedding anniversary on the 29th.  In fact, Waldo and Amber were kind enough to take us to lunch at Bizou on the Downtown Mall.  We also hit the bookstore in the basement of the Hardware store, which sadly closed -- but yesterday any book was only 50 cents!  We did buy a few. 

We went to Monticello for the candlelight tour, and then drove N to Culpeper to a terrific restaurant (It's About Thyme) for dinner - the owner used to have a restaurant of the same name in Media PA when I lived there, and as i reminded him (and he remembered) he and I cracked a bottle of Metaxa 7-star Barndy on Jan 1 1982 as my wife and I were leaving after a wonderful New Years dinner.  the restaurant is well worth the trip N from C'ville or S from DC

the point of this comment -- it is always great to get to know personally those whom we only know electronically, as we found out at lunch yesterday.

And since I am 60, there on those in the blogosphere for whom I could actually be a grandfather, at least in term of age.  The beauty of the blogosphere is that one's age does not matter, you are judged on the merit and effectiveness ofwhat you write.

Peace.



No need to be intimidated, Fluvana Dem, (AnonymousIsAWoman - 12/31/2006 2:27:35 PM)
And please come back and post again.  I really enjoyed your very insightful post and hope to read more from you. 

BTW, I'm probably the same generation as you are too.

Happy New Year!



Agree! (Rob - 12/31/2006 2:48:49 PM)
Please keep on posting Fluvanna Dem!

(And, while I'm begging, I'd love to see you blog - if not regularly, then occasionally - at your old blog and in our diaries, Anonymous).



New Year Wish (scarlatagal - 12/31/2006 4:59:11 PM)
That 2007 looks nothing like 2006--with the exception of Jim Webbs election -- a notable and wonderful event....
Snovym Godom, Vse Vmeste (Russian for Happy New Year, Everyone)


Very good and thoughtful post, Fluvanna. (summercat - 12/31/2006 5:21:22 PM)
Hope you stick around!!
I agree with your wishes--and would add that it would be great if we could get the lights turned on in NOLA in 2007.


From (Gordie - 12/31/2006 5:58:15 PM)
Nelson to Fluvanna, Keep on posting. Your comments were right on target of an Americans point of view. 70 to be 71 in March.


Thanks for the kind words. (Fluvanna Democrat - 1/1/2007 10:41:42 AM)
I'll be back!


Great post and wishes. (CommonSense - 1/2/2007 11:55:01 AM)
For the young or "older" as am I, this is a great place and time to get more involved.

Let us know when the restaurant opens. I am downtown C'ville every day and would love to support it!



Thanks, I'll let you know (Fluvanna Democrat - 1/2/2007 12:39:19 PM)