Some people in the Republican Party must have contacted the frail, elderly Nancy Reagan and I believe she was persuaded to ask that the ad be pulled. So there really is no choice but to pull the ad. You can't disrespect a First Lady and most importantly, you won't win any votes doing so. Not in Virginia, where going against an elderly widow's wishes won't win you any votes. So you need to apologize your ass off and do it graciously. I'm a master at this, as I've done stupid things at work I needed to apologize for.
Even if you think you are right, you should apologize. Why? Not because it's your truth but because it's societies' truth and this is a entirely different thing. A very hard lesson for me to learn personally, but having learned it, I can only pass it on.
You know what, if you're sincere, they'll probably forgive you. And you can graciously turn this kind of negative stuff around. Everyone screws up, but to apologize gracefully is a God-given gift. One that will be remembered come election day.
A Postscript:
Here's the way I look at it. What if Joe Lieberman were to put out an ad for his Independent Senate race with footage of Gore praising him or even the nominating speeches at the Democratic Convention of 2000. If Gore's voice was used to praise Lieberman wouldn't he be in the political hot seat to renounce these comments now that the candidate has left the political party? Would you let that stand, if you were Gore?
The whole Ronald Reagan thing was, if I might say, insulting to Democrats to begin with because we don't believe in what Ronald Reagan did! I hated it! It was false from the get go and the campaign is going to have to do some damage control.
As far as the political appearances go, I think this is probably a wash. The campaign against using the ad raises questions about double-standards. Was Mrs. Reagan manipulated? Possibly. Should Webb provide her with a letter of explanation? From a political perspective it might make sense. This election battle though ultimately comes down to the wishes of Virginia voters.
As a moderate voter who has voted for GOP candidates in the past, and would likely support the GOP more actively if I lived in the northeast, my feelings towards Reagan's legacy are mixed. On national security matters I generally give him very high points. On economic issues, I think his report card is mixed, but generally favorable. On social issues, I think things like the Meese Commission were a waste of taxpayer dollars. I think this is an opportunity to welcome moderate Reaganites into the fold this election. I suspect most of the outrage will be coming from a segment of Reagan's support--the Meese wing--that would never consider voting for a Democrat anyway.
Webb served 4 years in the Reagan administration. Does that mean he also cannot use the letter Reagan wrote to him when he resigned?
The Allen folks are paranoid that the video validates for "reagan dems" and independents voting for Webb. They're right. As Jim said, the ad would make Allen's head explode.
And since Jim made clear in the primary that he was a Reagan Dem, on national security issues, and still won the primary, there is nothing in featuring this clip that in any way contradicts his running as a Democrat. You can also expect clips of prominent Dems supporting him, perhaps in the ads run by the DSCC. The point is that Jim is someone who can appeal to everyone except those who have blind party loyalty or blind loyalty to Allen.
I think the campaign new the ad would raise controversy. Their "buy" was, I am told, in the 100,000 range, and yet they are getting 4-5 times that in free publicity, in free showing of the clips on news programs. I think it was a smart move. I don't expect the ad to run more than perhaps a week, perhaps even less than that. But it will have accomplished its purpose, which is to raise the fact that Reagan praised Jim Webb's military service.
Oh, and one other point. He called Jim the most highly decorated member of his class at Annapolis. Remember that one classmate was Ollie North. Hmmmmmm......