A skinny guy is buying a tub of tofu with a sheepish look on his face, as he watches bigger, tougher men buying steaks the size of walruses. The words +óGé¼+ôRegain Your Manhood+óGé¼-¥ flash on the screen and we then see the same guy regaining his confidence as he maneuvers a big Hummer down the road.
Yes, Hummer, that military vehicle turned Weapon of Metropolitan Destruction.
Now, we can guess the target audience for this commercial +óGé¼GÇ£ Republicans. But what does this say about how they define manhood? It says that manhood is NOT about learning how to treat a lady; NOT about being a responsible and loving father; NOT about being a hard-working breadwinner who gives all he can back to society.
No, the lesson of this ad is that manhood means reveling in everything that is big, bad, loud, nasty, wasteful and destructive +óGé¼GÇ£ flipping the bird to society and the whole, wide world.
This commercial could be laughed off as a blatant Freudian appeal to guys who feel inadequate +óGé¼GÇ£ except until you consider the fact that American politics is now being driven by the same Freudian appeals.
Why, after all, are we really in Iraq? In my opinion, it was never fundamentally about WMD, Saddam Hussein, geopolitics, oil or the fantasy that we can just snap our fingers and create a democratic Middle East. I think the real reason Bush started this unnecessary war was to stir the soul of his core constituency, by using the same psychological symbolism of +óGé¼+ômanhood+óGé¼-¥ employed in the Hummer ad. (Remember the rhetoric: +óGé¼+ôWanted: Dead or Alive+óGé¼-¥; +óGé¼+ôBring it on+óGé¼-¥, etc.) It+óGé¼Gäós all about feeling strong by using big, loud, destructive vehicles and weapons, showing the world how tough we are!
Except that, like the tofu-chomping rebel in the Hummer commercial, what we+óGé¼Gäóre really showing are the unbelievable depths of our insecurity. How pathetic that the leaders of America feel that we have to spend hundreds of billions of dollars, cause the deaths of at least 40,000 people and destabilize the world in order to prove our manhood, in order to +óGé¼GÇ£ I hate to say it +óGé¼GÇ£ feel good about ourselves.
One can only be a REAL man by getting beyond this ridiculous caricature of manhood and adding more dimensions, more depth to one+óGé¼Gäós character. Real, mature mean deal with problems, they don+óGé¼Gäót just blow things up to relieve their frustrations.
And right now, that means joining the fight against the Conan-the-Barbarian cartoon of manhood being promoted by Bush and Hummer. Real men create peace, not war.
My read on this "weakness" issue is that it comes with being the top-dog at the show--or at least being perceived as the top-dog by the rest of the world. It has nothing to do with people hating our values. It has everything to do with people resenting our power and the use of this power--sometimes on legitimate grounds, sometimes not.
After all, Real Men Vote For Webb....
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Just a thought.
Lemme tell you that bitchslapping mom number 2 would have been a lot more satisfying, and free.
And it is the choice I would have made.
I've felt for a while that the answer to Rove isn't to imitate him, it's to bring some psychologists (with experience dealing with non-liberals) into the DNC and start exploring how to restore the sense of self-worth of Republicans. If people weren't lost and feeling ashamed, they might still be conservative, perhaps voting for a general like IKE, perhaps an anti-deficit strong-military-but-isolationist type, but they would never vote for W.