So here's what I learned from my little soccer players: Democrats were brought up too well.
I have a problem with my players. They're too nice. They're delightful children, but not really great soccer players. They defer to each other and want to take turns. None of them is really aggressive. These are all great traits for human being, just not so great on a soccer field where a little aggression and competitive zeal would be nice.
Turns out, this is the problem with Democrats. We are too nice. Our parents raised us too well. We are mindful of others and respectful. We don't just give lip service to tolerance. We actually believe it. When we say we're a "big tent" party, we mean it. We truly embrace the idea that through diverse thinking we spark progress and innovation. We don't force everyone into lock-step, and we allow, no encourage, a complete spectrum of ideology. We believe in the truth and honor veracity. We believe that losing with honor is better than winning by selling our souls.
These are great things to hold dear, but they really hamper the ability to compete.
Our opponents are single-minded to a narrow purpose. When anything gets in the way, it's crushed. Any and all means of advancement are acceptable. We, on the other hand, take the thoughtful moment to ponder this new information, to evaluate it, and to see its value and merit.
So, like my little soccer players, we are tentative. We share. We support. We are polite. We are open.
And we lose elections because the other side just eats us up while we're standing there.
Sorry, I don't buy this. You can be nice and polite and still fight like hell for the things you believe. I don't mean this as an attack but we're about to lose an election and we don't need false pride that it's because we're too noble.
Martin Luther King, Jr. was nice and he also was impassioned and willing to die for what he believed. People got it that he was authentic and that he was fighting for a noble cause greater than himself.
The labor leaders and union members who fought, were jailed and sometimes died for their cause were nice people but they were tough and willing to put themselves on the line and not back down.
Finally, Jim Webb is a very nich man. I've met him several times and he's always polite. But he's tough and was "born fighting" and doesn't let people forget it when it comes to the causes he believes in, whether it's veterans' and workers' rights, the war in Iraq, or economic fairness.
If we're really raising children so polite that they can't play a game of soccer, we are indeed in trouble!
Obama is the first to stand firmly on the ground of virtue and fight back with everything inside the realm of decency against the indecent attacks of these hateful, greedy tyrants.
But is it enough? Where's the messaging? Where's the clear and resonant message that cuts to the heart of the McCain candidacy and overwhelms the Palin lipstick?
While I'm on the subject... What's the difference between Sarah Palin and George W. Bush???
can you guess?
In fact the right has a $300 M lipstick production network built all around DC - Heritage Foundation, Federalist Society, What do you think they produce?
Just because some political commentator on TV may say "We knew about that" doesn't mean that millions of other people knew about it.
i do not think in the least that obama has had any trouble fighting...it's just that some of us on this side seem to think that just cuz the media says obama is having a hard time that we're supposed to believe it.
well i dont...obama's campaign has been brilliant and every time i think he doesn't know what he's doing, he surprises me...
do u honestly believe that the obama team didn't know that the mccain camp wouldn't go nutso over the lipstick on a pig statement...of course they knew they would and THEY DID...and they were able to illustrate once again how the mccain camp cant talk about the issues...
one of the dems (as a group) problems is we've never had someone that can chew bubble gum and kick ass at the same time and Obama can.
Why can't we just keep that fight, but this time directed at Republicans? I have seen a lot more hesitation on attacking the Palin/McCain ticket that there was to attack Obama or Hillary.
On the other hand, maybe we are just to polite to fight with strangers :)
BTW, you don't have to stoop to their level to fight tough. If you know something is untrue, don't repeat it. If it's a personal attack that has nothing to do with a candidate's performance in office, don't use it. Their families should mostly be off limits (except for the "hypocrisy factor").
But if somebody is incompetent, a liar, has poor judgment, doesn't understand the facts, has bad policies, is tied to an administration that has taken us in the wrong direction, those are fair things to attack them with.
At the same time, of course a candidate (read Obama for now) should also be presenting his own best credentials. Again, don't lie, don't exaggerate. Just tell the truth about why this candidate is better than their candidate.
That's what I mean by fighting. We might still lose (always a possibility for either side) but it shouldn't be because we didn't put up the best fight - the best campaign - that we could.
It's not RK or the blogs that are ducking this. But the campaign has not been as forceful as it could be and I don't want anybody using the excuse that it's because Democrats are too nice. We are nice enough but not pushovers.
Children who at age 4 were described by their teachers as "self- reliant, energetic, somewhat dominating, relatively under- controlled and resilient" identified as politically liberal 20 years later.
Conversely, children described as "feeling easily victimized, easily offended, indecisive, fearful, rigid, inhibited and relatively over-controlled and vulnerable" favored conservative politics when they grew up.
Oakland Tribune, March 26, 2006.
By the way that video on the wolves being shot is Powerful, I hope they get that on MSM even though it may not do a lot of good, it'll dirty em a little. I still have a problem with people ENJOYING hunting defensless animals, unless they want to try killing a black bear with their bare hands--I don't have a problem with that. To me hunters without their guns are a bunch of pussies.
I have always wondered how this would have worked:
"Mr. Chambliss, I am outraged by your TV ads about my character. I will meet you tomorrow at noon at the Georgia State Capital building and with the one arm I have left, I'll wipe the steps with your butt! I'll be on time--don't be late."
No need here to revisit the abuse John Kerry took from the "Swift Boat Veterans for Truth" except to wonder how this would have worked:
In the first face-to-face televised debate with George W. Bush what if Kerry had skipped his opening remarks, turned to Bush and said:
"You draft-dodging Chicken Hawk creep, why don't you call me a liar and coward to my face, right here, right now instead of having your stooges do it? I'm waiting. . . .
I believe that both men would be in office today.....
It is true that there are times both domestically and in foreign affairs, where conciliation and mediation are hopeless, and nasty frontal assault is the appropriate response (remember the American fleet attacking the Tripoli pirates and the Bey of Algiers). I think now is one of those times. Enough is enough. Publicize the hell out of Keating five and Troopergate, go for the jugular on raising taxes and leaving Palin's toonerville town with horrendous debt (and compare that to Dubya), highlight her obvious ignorance of the Bush Doctrine. Since we don't want family publicly involved (even though she parades them around at the drop of a hat), go online to dirty up that image (just as the Repubs do): On the Internet see to it that folks hear about that pregnant daughter who had actually left home and was living with her aunt because of her mother's controlling bossiness, or that the famous son bound for Iraq is in the Army because he was such a screw-up. Publish the Washington Post's comparative analysis of Obama's tax plan vs McCain's--- it has an easily understood fabulous table that's most convincing. Demand apologies from both McCain-Palin and the jerks on television and shate radio whenever the opportunity presents itself. Sue if possible.
Palin is your typical Republican insider politician and make sure everybody learns that.
PS: one reason this time is the worst is that the traditional white male domination is on its last legs and they are mortally afraid. Fighting dirty? You betcha.